Sally Rooney wrote the first draft of Conversations with Friends in roughly three months. She was in her early twenties, still finishing a master's degree at Trinity College Dublin, and she had not yet published anything. That speed is the first thing worth understanding about how she works, because it shapes everything else: the quality of the prose, the stripped-back style, the way her characters talk in long contested exchanges that feel less like literary dialogue and more like two people trying to win an argument.
She's been marketed as a voice of a generation, a label she clearly dislikes, and the conversation around her books has often said more about the anxieties of literary culture than about the work itself. What tends to get lost is that she's a highly technical writer with a specific and repeatable method. The speed matters. The debate background matters. The decision to remove quotation marks from dialogue is a structural choice, not an affectation. Her relationship with fame is not just biographical color but is directly relevant to how and why she writes the way she does. This page tries to get at the actual routine underneath all the noise.
The Routine at a Glance
- Wake Time
- Not publicly documented. Rooney guards the domestic details of her life carefully and has not described a fixed wake time in interviews. What she has described is writing in sustained concentrated periods rather than short daily windows.
- Writing Location
- Works from home in Dublin. She has described her process in terms of long focused sessions rather than a specific physical setup, and has been deliberately vague about the details of her private life.
- Daily Output
- Fast by any standard. The first draft of Conversations with Friends ran to around 100,000 words and was completed in approximately three months. She has described starting a new project with no discipline required because the excitement carries her forward.
- Tools
- Laptop. She has mentioned in interviews that a significant part of her style developed through writing emails, which suggests the screen rather than the notebook is her native surface.
- Famous Ritual
- Each novel is written as a conscious response to a book she admires: Conversations with Friends to Jane Austen's Emma; Normal People to George Eliot's Daniel Deronda; Beautiful World, Where Are You to Henry James's The Golden Bowl; Intermezzo to Joyce's Ulysses.
- Books Written This Way
- Conversations with Friends (2017), Normal People (2018), Beautiful World, Where Are You (2021), Intermezzo (2024).
Speed as a Method
A hundred thousand words in three months is not slow. For context, that's a pace most published novelists never reach even in their most productive stretches. Rooney did it on her first book, while still a graduate student, with no contract and no deadline. What that kind of speed produces, and what I think accounts for a lot of what makes her prose feel different from carefully assembled literary fiction, is a certain unguardedness. Fast drafts don't give you time to get too careful. The sentences come out lean because there's no opportunity to fatten them up.
She's been candid about not needing discipline at the start of a new project. In interviews she's described the opening phase of writing as almost effortless, driven by excitement rather than willpower. The characters arrive, she's said, and stay in her mind until she figures out their precise relationships to one another. That's not discipline in the traditional sense. It's closer to urgency. She writes because she can't stop thinking about the people in the book, and the writing is how she works out what they're actually doing.
The later stages are harder. She's spoken about writing and rewriting scenes that wouldn't resolve, about reading philosophy to find a way through a structural impasse while working on Intermezzo. The fast-draft opening is real, and so is the long difficult middle. What she doesn't appear to do is dawdle at the beginning, building intricate outlines before touching the prose. She gets into the draft and uses the draft itself as the thinking.
For writers who spend months planning before they feel ready to begin, this is the most transferable part of her practice. The first draft is research, not a finished book. Rooney seems to know this earlier than most. She gets the draft down fast, which means she gets to see what the actual problems are faster, which means she spends more of her time on the real work of revision rather than the avoidance behavior of extended preparation.
The Debater's Ear
In 2013, while an undergraduate at Trinity College Dublin, Rooney became the top-ranked debater at the European Universities Debating Championships. She represented The Hist, Trinity's storied historical society, and won best speaker at the competition. This is not a small achievement. European university debating at that level is a test of how quickly you can construct a coherent argument from almost nothing and land it in front of an audience that is actively looking for the holes in it.
She quit competitive debate shortly after, and in 2015 published an essay in The Dublin Review explaining why. Her critique was sharp: the circuit had become disconnected from the real-world stakes it was supposed to be engaging, and winning had started to feel like an exercise in performing conviction rather than having any. That disillusionment is interesting in itself. But what matters here is what the debate years left behind in the prose.
Open any of her novels to a conversation between two characters and you'll find it structured like a debate. Someone advances a position. The other pushes back. The first retreats a little, concedes a point, then comes at it differently. There's always a direction to the exchange, always something being argued toward or away from. Her characters don't just talk at each other. They're trying to persuade each other, or resist being persuaded, which is not the same thing as having a conversation in the way most literary fiction handles it. The argument is the intimacy. Two people arguing at length, in Rooney's hands, are two people letting each other in.
This is a skill that came from years of competitive practice, not from reading novels. The Irish Times interview from 2017 is one of the few places she's discussed the connection directly, noting that a significant part of her style developed through the act of extended written argument rather than through fiction. Emails, she said. Debate preparation. The habit of making a case in plain sentences, without ornament, and seeing whether it held. You can hear that training in every exchange her characters have.