Writer's Block

What Happens When You Sit Through Writer's Block

Kia Orion | | 5 min read

Raymond Chandler had a rule for the days when writing wouldn't come. He'd sit at his desk with a blank sheet of paper and give himself two options: write, or do absolutely nothing. No reading, no answering letters, nothing. He could stare at the wall if he wanted. But the desk was the boundary. He stayed inside it.

He called this "the simple way to force yourself to write," and described it in a letter to a friend as the only method that ever consistently worked for him. There was no trick to it, no special mental framework. Chandler simply refused to offer himself an exit. The boredom would build until putting words on the page became the more tolerable option. Sometimes that took twenty minutes. Sometimes it took most of a morning.

What interests me about this isn't the discipline of it, though that's certainly part of the story. What interests me is what Chandler noticed happening inside that waiting. The longer he sat, the more the internal noise started to quiet on its own. The performance anxiety, the constant comparison to what he'd written the week before. All of it gradually lost volume. And in the space that opened up, sentences started arriving that he hadn't planned and couldn't have predicted.


Most advice about overcoming writer's block treats it as a problem to solve. Find the right prompt, change your environment, switch to a different project. And sometimes those things help, genuinely. But they all share an assumption that the block is an obstacle sitting between you and the work, and that your job is to get around it. Chandler's approach was stranger and, I think, more honest. He treated the block as something to sit inside. He let it be boring and uncomfortable. And he waited to see what happened when he stopped trying to escape.

What happened, more often than not, was that he wrote.


Resistance has a half-life

Steven Pressfield gave this feeling a name in The War of Art. He called it Resistance, capital R, and described it as a force that shows up every single time you try to do creative work. Pressfield's version is almost mythological. Resistance is cunning, impersonal, and relentless. It will use any tool available, including very reasonable-sounding rationalizations, to keep you from sitting down.

But here's the thing Pressfield describes that I think gets overlooked. Resistance is loudest at the start. It peaks in the first few minutes, the first half hour, the moment right before you actually begin. If you can tolerate that initial wave, it loses its grip. It's still murmuring in the background, but it stops being the dominant voice in the room.

I've experienced this enough times that I've started to think of resistance as having a half-life, like a radioactive element that's intense at first and then decays steadily the longer you sit with it. Twenty minutes of terrible, aimless, embarrassing sentences on the page and the feeling is already different. Forty minutes in and you've sometimes forgotten that the block was there at all.

Not always, though. Some days the half-life is longer. Some days you sit for the full hour and nothing much comes, and you close the notebook and that's the session. That happens. The question is whether you come back the next day, and the day after that, and allow the pattern to work over weeks instead of demanding it work in a single sitting.

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Bad sentences are doing more than you think

Anne Lamott has a phrase for this in Bird by Bird that every writer seems to know: the shitty first draft. She argues that all good writing begins as bad writing, and that the only way to get to the good version is to let the bad version exist first. Most people remember the permission in that advice. What I remember is the mechanism.

When you write a bad sentence, you're not wasting time. You're narrowing the problem. Every wrong word is teaching you, through a process you can't fully articulate, what the right word might eventually be. The bad sentence sits on the page and you look at it and think, "well, that's not it," and that small recognition is a form of progress. It's the same way a sculptor works, actually. You remove what doesn't belong. But you can't remove anything from a blank page.

Chandler's desk rule worked because it forced the bad sentences to happen. He didn't wait for the good ones. He let the mediocre, half-formed, occasionally embarrassing ones accumulate until something shifted.

What daily writers understand about blocks

The writers who sit down every single day tend to talk about writer's block differently than the writers who write when inspiration strikes. The sporadic writer treats a block as a crisis, a sign that something has gone wrong and needs to be diagnosed. The daily writer treats it the way a long-distance runner treats a bad mile. It's just a mile. There will be another one in a few minutes.

Virginia Woolf wrote in her diary almost every day for decades. She wrote through depressive episodes, through periods of intense self-doubt, through mornings where she described her own prose as "feeble" and "watery." She kept going. The diary entries from those periods aren't triumphant. They're often quite dull, a few lines about the weather or what she had for lunch. But the practice held. And when the ideas returned, as they always did, she was already at the desk. She didn't have to rebuild the habit from scratch.

I think that's the thing about how to get through writer's block that doesn't fit neatly into a listicle or a motivational quote. The sitting through it is cumulative. Each time you stay at the desk and refuse to leave, you're building evidence for yourself that the block is temporary. Not evidence in some abstract, inspirational-poster sense. Actual lived evidence, stored in your body, that you've been here before and the words eventually came back.

After enough repetitions, the block stops feeling like a wall. It starts feeling like weather, something you dress for and walk through. I'm not entirely sure when that shift happened for me. It wasn't dramatic. I just noticed one morning that I was blocked and it didn't particularly bother me, and I wrote through it the way I'd write through anything else.


Chandler's rule sounds almost stupidly simple when you describe it to someone. Sit at the desk. Write or do nothing. Wait. But I keep coming back to it because so much of what we call writer's block is really just the discomfort of not yet knowing what to say, combined with the fear that maybe we never will. The sitting doesn't eliminate that fear. It just proves, slowly, through accumulation, that the fear was wrong. Or at least that it was wrong often enough to stop taking its advice.

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Kia Orion

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