Writing Voice

How to Find Your Writing Voice by Stealing from Everyone

Kia Orion | | 5 min read

In 1959, a twenty-two-year-old Hunter S. Thompson sat at his kitchen table in New York and typed out The Great Gatsby. The whole thing. Word by word, page by page, on his own typewriter. Then he did it again with A Farewell to Arms.

He wasn't plagiarizing. He wasn't studying. He was doing something stranger than both. He wanted to know what it felt like inside his own hands to write a sentence the way Fitzgerald wrote a sentence. He wanted the rhythm in his fingers, the way a pianist learns a Chopin etude not to perform it forever but to understand what that kind of movement feels like from the inside. Thompson would later become one of the most distinctive voices in American writing, a writer you could identify from a single paragraph. But in 1959 he was just a guy at a table, typing somebody else's words and hoping something would stick.

Joan Didion did nearly the same thing. She's talked about typing out Hemingway sentences when she was starting out, feeling her way into his short declarative rhythms, learning where he put the weight in a line. She didn't end up writing like Hemingway. She ended up writing like Didion. But something about that early imitation trained her ear.

There's a lesson here about how to find your writing voice, and it's the opposite of what most writing advice suggests.

Every writer's voice starts as a mixtape

The advice you'll hear most often is "find your authentic voice," as though your voice is a lost set of keys and you just need to check the right coat pocket. But nobody's voice arrives fully formed. What actually happens is messier and more interesting.

You read someone who lights you up. You start unconsciously borrowing their cadence, their sentence length, the way they build a paragraph. Then you read someone else and borrow from them too. And slowly, over months or years, those borrowed pieces start colliding in ways that are genuinely yours, because nobody else borrowed from exactly that combination in exactly that order while living exactly your life.

Austin Kleon wrote a whole book about this called Steal Like an Artist, and the central idea is that originality is a myth worth letting go of. Every creative person is a collector. Your taste, the specific things you love and can't stop rereading, is already more original than you think. The work is letting all those influences crash into each other long enough that something new crawls out.

The moment you stop sounding like your influences

There's a Raymond Carver story that complicates all of this in a useful way. For years, Carver was celebrated as the master of American minimalism. Spare, stripped-down prose. Sentences like clean bones. Then after his death, his editor Gordon Lish's papers became available and people realized Lish had cut Carver's manuscripts by fifty, sometimes seventy percent. Entire paragraphs removed. Endings rewritten. The "Carver voice" was, in some real sense, a collaboration Carver himself had complicated feelings about.

I think about this whenever someone asks about finding your writing voice, because it shows how tangled the whole concept actually is. Your voice gets shaped by what you read, but also by who edits you, by what you cut, by what you're afraid to say and then finally say anyway. It accumulates.

At some point, if you keep writing, you notice you've stopped trying to sound like anyone. You're just trying to get the sentence right, and "right" has started to mean something specific to you that it doesn't mean to other people. That's the shift. It's usually quiet when it happens.

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Why finding your writing voice can't be taught (but can be practiced)

Stephen King says something in On Writing that I've been turning over for a while. He compares a writer's voice to the way you walk or laugh. You don't decide how to laugh. It just comes out the way it comes out, shaped by a thousand things you'll never fully understand. But, and here's what matters, you can only hear your own laugh if you actually laugh often enough.

I'm honestly not sure if voice is something you develop or something you uncover. Maybe both. Maybe asking the question too precisely misses the point. What I do think is that the writers who find their voice are the ones who write a lot of bad sentences on the way there. They're the ones still showing up on Tuesday morning when the writing feels flat and borrowed and nothing like what they want it to be.

What daily writing does to your voice over time

Here's what I've noticed, and I think it's the least glamorous truth about voice: it compounds. The way money compounds. Slowly and then all at once, except the "all at once" part still feels slow while you're in it.

Writing every day doesn't make each session better. Some days are worse than the day before. But daily writing gives you enough raw material that your unconscious starts doing the sorting for you. You start recognizing which sentences feel like yours and which feel like you're performing. You get faster at cutting the ones where you're performing. And that editing instinct, that sense of "yes, this" and "no, not that," is your voice asserting itself.

It's a quiet process. Nobody's going to tell you the day it happens. You'll just look back at something you wrote six months ago and think, huh, that sounds like someone I used to be.

Thompson stopped typing out Fitzgerald eventually. Didion stopped typing out Hemingway. They'd taken what they needed. The rest was just time and repetition and the willingness to keep going when imitation stopped working and they hadn't yet found what came next.

That middle part, the gap between copying and originality, is where most people quit. Staying in it is the whole practice.

If you're in that middle part right now, a small daily prompt can keep you moving through it. Something short. Something that asks you a question about your own thinking and lets you answer in your own words, whatever those sound like today.

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Kia Orion

Author of The Writer's Daily Practice, the #1 Bestselling book in Journal Writing and Writing Skills. He writes a free daily reflection for writers.

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