Writing Practice

What Happens When You Write Every Day

Kia Orion | | 5 min read

William Stafford woke up at four every morning for most of his adult life. He'd make coffee, sit in a chair with a legal pad, and write whatever showed up that morning. Some mornings it was a poem. Some mornings it was half a thought that didn't go anywhere. He kept this up for decades, thousands of mornings, without apparent concern for whether any given session produced something worth keeping.

When someone asked him what would happen if what he wrote one morning wasn't any good, he said something that still bothers me: "I lower my standards."

That sounds like a joke, or like the kind of thing a writer says to seem easygoing in an interview. But Stafford meant it literally. And I think he was getting at something most writing advice gets exactly wrong.


The writing world has an obsession with output quality. The whole apparatus of writing education (workshops, craft books, MFA programs) treats each piece of writing as a performance to be evaluated. Stafford treated his morning practice as something closer to breathing. You don't evaluate a breath. You just take the next one.

What happens when you write every day has almost nothing to do with getting better at sentences, though that happens too. It has to do with changing your relationship to the act itself. The resistance gets quieter. Not gone, but quiet enough that you stop negotiating with it every morning.


Your tolerance for bad work is the first thing that changes

Most people who try to write every day quit within two weeks, and the reason is almost never that they don't have time. It's that they sit down on day three or day seven, what comes out feels like garbage, and they take that as evidence they shouldn't be writing.

Stafford's move was to refuse that interpretation entirely. A bad morning of writing wasn't evidence of anything except that it was a particular Tuesday and that particular Tuesday was like that. The writers who sustain a daily practice aren't the ones who produce great work every day. They're the ones who've learned to be genuinely unbothered by producing bad work on a regular basis.

There's a story in Art & Fear by David Bayles and Ted Orland about a ceramics teacher who divided a class into two groups. One group was graded purely on the quantity of pots they made. The other was graded on quality, just one perfect pot. At the end of the semester, the quantity group had produced objectively better work. They'd made so many pots that they'd developed instincts the quality group never built, because the quality group spent all their time planning and theorizing and barely touched the clay.

I think about that story constantly.

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Your unconscious starts solving problems you haven't consciously posed

This one is harder to explain because it sounds like something a meditation app would promise, but it's genuinely the most practical benefit of writing daily.

Dorothea Brande wrote about this in 1934 in Becoming a Writer. Her advice was to write first thing in the morning, before your critical mind has fully woken up, because the early-morning mind hasn't yet remembered all the reasons you should be careful. She wasn't talking about the muse or divine inspiration. She was describing a cognitive state available to anyone willing to set an alarm.

After a month or two of daily writing, you notice that ideas start arriving pre-assembled. You sit down and a connection you didn't consciously make is just there, waiting. Your brain has been working on it while you were sleeping or making dinner or staring at a wall, because you've trained it to expect that something will be asked of it at six in the morning and it starts preparing accordingly. I'm not sure I fully understand the mechanism behind this, but I've watched it happen enough times, in my own practice and in every writer I've talked to who sticks with it past the first couple months, that I've stopped questioning whether it's real.


What stays the same

Here's the part nobody mentions. The resistance never goes away. Two years into a daily practice, five years, ten, there's still a morning where you'd rather do literally anything else. The difference is that you stop interpreting resistance as a signal. It becomes weather. You don't cancel your day because it's cloudy.

Anne Lamott wrote about this in Bird by Bird, probably the most honest book about writing ever published. She talks about the voices that tell her she's a fraud and her work is terrible, and her strategy is to acknowledge them, picture putting them in a jar on the shelf, and write anyway. That's not inspirational advice. That's a coping mechanism for something that never fully resolves.

What daily writing actually gives you, the real thing underneath all the productivity language and habit-tracking apps and word-count spreadsheets, is a different relationship with uncertainty. You stop needing to know whether what you're about to write will be good. You just write it and find out. And that tolerance for not knowing, if I'm being honest, is the only thing that's made a lasting difference in my writing over the past several years. I'm not sure what that says about all the other advice, but it's what I keep coming back to.


I think about Stafford's line almost every morning. "I lower my standards." It sounds like permission to be careless, but he was describing the hardest discipline there is: showing up without a guarantee that today will be worth it.

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Kia Orion

Author of The Writer's Daily Practice, the #1 Bestselling book in Journal Writing and Writing Skills. He writes a free daily reflection for writers.

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